Hi family,

I've been a card carrying member of NA for almost 10 years. Over that time, I've learned to be both appreciative but also cautious about 12 step programs. In theory they are wonderful. But when you get right down to it, the programs are run by sick humans with no professional training. While this is not by definition a problem, it can be, as not everyone goes into the rooms for the most noble of reasons. Many people prey on newcomers - this is called 13 stepping. You know, sleep with the new girl who is vulnerable, that sort of thing. all I'm saying is be cautious. Be hopeful and open minded, but don;t think for a second that it's a miracle organization. It's not. It has helped millions, but it also has something like a 68% failure rate. Find a good sponsor, find a small group of friends, and don;t air your laundry in open groups. 10 years I've been involved. Just saying, be smart. Good luck, Randy