omg! i was reading your story and i thought i was reading my painful story, im going thru the exact same thing. I havent seen my son and grand daughter since sept 22 2014 . i know exactly the hurtful pain you are feeling its whatever my dil days goes. they dont jnderstand their not only hurting me but their hurting my grand daughtrr too. i have my two other sons living wigh me too and my oldest son gf. my youngest son n my dil n baby lived here to before all hell broke loose, my oldest would pay my youngest to do stuff around the house so he askdd his brother to clean his car, well while cleaning hiz car hs found condoms instead oc going to his brogher and aski.g him about ghem he told his wife and she ran and told his gf, so his gf asks my oldest son about the condoms she told him my dil told her so hd goes to my youngest to tell him why didnt hd go to him instead of starting all this drama they had a verbal confrontation and thats would oc been the end but here comes my dil like a raging bull and punches my oldest i had him pinned and my other son hsd my youngest so they woyldnt fight but they ended up fighting and my dil and my sons gf were fighting well my dil told my son she didnt want to stsy herd anymore so they packed up whaf they could and left at 1 am. so they went back to her moms so a week passed after two weeks i called n txted wanring to go see my grand daughter thats when if was dxcuse after excuse finally my dil txt me and tell me were gonna have yhe bsby party and you can help financially, i didnt answer because i wanted to see my gx all this time. they got mad because they saix they left in tbe middle of the night with his dtr not knowing where yhey were gonna live so they blame me because i didnt throw my oldest sin ouf and his gf.its a mess after that its was sending back n forth txt messages i wasnt allowed to see my gd. my son wants me to appologize to his wife and i dont feel i owe her one but i told ok i dont have a probem i will apoligized for my gd sake he said no that wasnt a sincere apology. and we left it at that. my heart iz in so muhch pain i miss my princess so much. at least you have another grand child. my dil ruined my sons relationship and she ruin my relationship with my son. all i can do is give this situation to God. Thank you for hearing me ouf. God Bless.