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Originally Posted by Yearning0723
...other people just find the five year old in me really annoying and pathetic, even people who say they understand and can take it, they really can't. The last person who I was really, truly open and vulnerable with told me she loved me (even the little kid me) and that it was okay to just cry in front of her and she would just hold me...she didn't mean it.
She told me it was okay, and then went and started complaining to other people about what a baby I was and how I was taking advantage of her. After that experience, I don't think I will ever be able to be vulnerable with someone ever again...
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This is why therapists get paid to do their job. They get paid not to complain - at least not when they will be overheard and cause more damage. Was this person a t? If so, then there was a problem you need repaired now. If not, why would you change the course of your future because this one person acted poorly towards you??