If you're not comfortable, don't do it. At the very least, try to get his reasoning behind doing it. I've been with my T long enough now that I feel like if he asked (or if he had a couch), I'd give it a go. But early on? No way.
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“It's a funny thing... but people mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really, what guides them is what they're afraid of.” ― Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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