Considering throwing myself my own personal pity party next week - then it's been a year since I had sex.
It seems like "everyone" has a lot of sex all the time, but I know that's not true. I have friends who've gone almost two years, and very few of the single people I know have sex more than maybe a few times a year. But a year feels long.
I just don't really find anyone I'm interested to have sex with, and I'm not usually the first girl guys would be interested in.
Now it has been so long that I don't really "miss" it, there is a time after a while when you're extremely sexually frustrated, but now it's as though my body has slowed down its sex drive.
A lot of people seem to think women have no problem getting sex, but I wonder where they got that idea from - yes, there always really drunk or old or creepy people basically harassing me on the street on my way home, and sometimes someone who is only interested in that approaching, but come on, who really wants to have sex with those people? I usually just go out with my friends (and just want to BE with my friends, so please don't come over and disturb us) when I am out, I am not interested in anyone at my college etc. I really don't know where to meet someone but I'm not really worried, I just feel a bit patethic because it's almost been a year.
So - what's the longest you have gone without?
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