Three years. Post divorce. Add in a few extra months. Ten months now, thanks to ldr. He's (S.O.)got me beat on the time chart, too.
Not jumping into a new relationship, after an abusive relationship, helped me regain my sense of how sexuality and sense of identity correlate. The current distance between, helps work on the little quirks relationships bring, without masking with the wrong sense of security that physicality can bring. It's not ideal for everyone, but for a wounded soul like myself, it's the right pace.
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