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We now have a wonderful relationship, and I am closer to her than I ever was to my own mother.

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Pink,
This is exactly how I felt about my mother-in-law who I miss now more than I miss my own Mom. You are lucky to have that relationship.

More thoughts on boundaries: They keep popping up because I construct them, where they don't exist...For example, T will say, "Why don't you tell her>>>>>>" and i will say, " I can't." The list goes on and on......I need less boundaries, not more.