In all honesty our family is a mess.

My missing daughter is very angry and we think it is because she feels guilt for doing what she wants. She says by talking with us she becomes hurt. Not knowing what to do next we found a therapist that specializes in missing family members. I expect to go through the wringer and be told how bad we were to her and how she feels devalued. I will go through this process if I can find a way that is positive and I can communicate with her....I miss my daughter so much..she will never know how destructive her actions were. I struggle day to day

Her friendship with the coach continues. She has (thankfully) maintained friendships with her HS friends and even has a local boyfriend. But her main emotional support comes from the coach.
I wonder if I contact the coach and ask her to assist us with communication she will help? Coach is 30 years old. What a bad Lifetime movie I am in