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I am a very kind and understanding person and it would have been so much easier on me if they had told me why they didn't want a friendship anymore instead of running away.
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These shy loners could have become nervous about your friendliness. Maybe you got too close for the comfort of a shy loner.
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it would have been so much easier on me if they had told me why they didn't want a friendship anymore instead of running away. Not having any closure is eating away at my fragile self esteem.
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Well that would have required them to allow even more closeness and vulnerability by telling you their inner thoughts about the relationship. I bet it felt easier and much safer for them to just leave.