Almeda,
Loved this dream. Erotic transference?
Not your father, not your husband but "T," the person who can give you what the other men in your life can't: (the kicking of your dad and your husband....)
The "thinner you" could be you without the baggage that your sessions allow you to shed.
I don't know if I could share it either, but probably would be good to. Maybe you can edit it a little?
Peace.