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I agree with the first two responses that you got. Actually, it's not just guys who are like this. A lot of people tend to be uncomfortable with getting to close to anyone to soon. Sometimes when you're lonely, maybe it's possible that you came to expect to much from them to soon? I have made that mistake in the past with people.
Without knowing the details, it does sound like they probably just wanted sex from you and nothing more. It's always best to play it cool with guys and most people in the beginning and to maintain some distance.
Most guys love the chase. Read "Why Men Love B*tches" by Sherry Argov and then you'll understand that guys think very differntly from us women. They tend to play lots of games and they will usually disrespect women who allow themselves to be treated badly.
People tend to want what doesn't come that easily to them.
Even if it's just friendship that you're after, you need to maintain some distance to not give them the wrong idea about you. I hope this helped.
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