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Originally Posted by Bill3
These shy loners could have become nervous about your friendliness. Maybe you got too close for the comfort of a shy loner.
Well that would have required them to allow even more closeness and vulnerability by telling you their inner thoughts about the relationship. I bet it felt easier and much safer for them to just leave.
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Thank you Bill for this insight, it helps. The first man got closer to me he said than anyone else. He shared all his vulnerabilities and weaknesses with me. He would frequently cry on my shoulder. To the outside world he was this tough rebel without a cause. With me he was this sweet vulnerable man. So maybe he just got too close to me and it scared him. He ran away and hid.