i think i know what you are saying that people who are depressed go off sex. maybe it's the closeness i need, the affection. i went off sex when i had my 2 children for quite a while, but now i feel i need it more, maybe because of the closeness, affection thing, idk. all i know is i'm sad and feel lonely and even though my husband is trying he does it in a joky way because that's the way he deals with it. i would just like him to come up behind me and give me a cuddle sometimes you know? maybe i expect too much.

jin