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Originally Posted by ifst5
It's called 'ghosting' - happens a lot on social media too. It is unfair because it demonstrates a lack of responsibility - and therefore care - for a once happy friendship.
But because you don't know what precisely what happened in the end - you have to gain closure in a more neutral way which is hard because its easy for feelings of anger about past behaviour to go unacknowledged.
You deserve better and will know what to be wary of next time. All the best to you.
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I'm not sure what "ghosting" is, but I'm going to look it up. Why do people do that? Why can't people just be honest and direct and not stoop to such nasty and immature behavior? I'm sure that I'll never get any closure. I think that she figured that she didn't need me in her life as much anymore once she got a b.f.
Also, she mentioned that she was going to move far away in five years and retire. I told her at the time that I'd miss her and all she said was aaawww (I was hurt that she made no mention of telling me that she'd miss me too).....that and all the other red flags that I mentioned should've made me realize that she wasn't really a real friend after all, but just someone to go to the movies and have a nice meal with once in awhile, ugh!