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Originally Posted by floatingbutterfly42
Hi, I was reading through this thread because I have been struggling with women friendships. It seems like it is very difficult to have close women friends. I really appreciate what you all have had to say. When you ladies say you are shy, does that mean you hardly talk when in a group? Or you do talk, but it is difficult for you?
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I find that most females in general don't really value their female friendships. It seems like there is very little in the way of loyalty with other females. To many women tend to ditch their friends once they get a b.f. I don't expect anyone to chose their b.f over me, but to ditch their friends completely and ignore them once they're in a relationship is ridiculous and pathetic!
As for your question, I'm a lot shier in groups. I just hate having to compete with people for attention. The people in the group are always louder and more talkative. There is always one or two people who dominate the conversation. I don't like interupting people or trying to talk over them, so I don't. I just become invisible. I have never been good at talking to multiple people at once. It's annoying and exhausting! I'm much better with people one on one!