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Old Dec 05, 2014, 01:32 AM
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Originally Posted by janus2014 View Post
My most recent friendship was one that I had to give up. She honestly did not seem to get it when I would request down time after hanging out with her, and thought it was perfectly acceptable after hanging on the phone for an hour to suggest coming over! Or vice versa. When I met my future husband, she became downright annoying, whining about how I didn't seem to have time for her anymore because I was dating. I finally got tired of the high maintenance act and ended the friendship. I felt badly but she really gave me no other choice. If she would have been patient, I would have eventually sought her out again, but she made herself unbearable.
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Sorry to hear that. At least you told her how you felt. She obviously didn't respect your boundaries. I had a similar situation happen with me to where this woman would text me to early in the day and would bombard me with texts if I didn't answer her back right away.

I had to let her go since I told her not to text me so early or at all as I hate texting, but she didn't listen, so I let her go. And then she had the nerve to call me rude and selfish, OK, whatever! This was coming from a woman who'd talk non-stop about herself and her problems, ugh!

Maybe that's why one of my friendships just ended. Maybe she thought I was expecting her to spend more time with me then she wanted to? If so, she should've made that much more clear.

I did give this woman plenty of space, but to make a long story short, she really hurt me badly by making a promise to watch my cats when I was visiting family over Thanksgiving and then she never bothered to call me back or email me.

Needless to say, I'm done with her no matter what. I told her that on her v.m. She was to full of herself, to selfish, and very incosiderate. Did you give your friend a fair warning before ending your friendship? Sometimes you need to remind peolpe of your boundaries and need for personal space.