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Originally Posted by hvert
No, you were not out of line in any way and you *did* try to set boundaries - she just interpreted any sort of attempt to stop her from doing exactly what she wanted as rude!
I have run into that type before as well. It's too bad they can't tone it down a bit with the complaints and incessant demand for attention.
I would prepare myself for her to call again when she realizes that she has chased yet another one away -- and she'll probably ask if you are ready to apologize!
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Thanks. Yeah, I did try to tell her many times to please not do this or that, but it's like she didn't listen or care to stop her behavior! Some people do have this constant need for attention! She hasn't called or texted me back as she told me that I'm a "toxic" person. lol! Whatever!
I can't be there for her 24/7! Even if she did call back, I would just ignore her. I'm done with being used as a free therapist. I'm willing to listen, but when it's all about someone else and their constant and never ending problems, forget it! I'd rather have no friends than a bunch of selfish ones!