Hey Almeda,

Went on to www.guidetopsychology.com (which has been mentioned before in other threads), to read about erotic transference. I cam across the following quote, in their section on dream interpretation:

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Images of sexuality are rarely, if ever, expressions of “love.” To the body, sexuality is simply an aspect of the biological process of reproduction and therefore has nothing to do with what we commonly call love. Therefore, in the unconscious—the origin of all dreams—sexual images and feelings have nothing to do with real love; instead they signify a narcissistic need to be seen or to be noticed as a way to compensate for a deep fear of being abandoned or ignored.

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So, maybe there is something in your unconscious that you really need to tell T, something that has really been bugging you?