I think you know if you are a good fit. I have been with my t for 15 months. We have had some really difficult times. I have hated him with a passion, but he's always encouraged me to work with him & through those difficult times. I think that if you can talk honestly & openly, even when you find it almost impossible to do, then you WILL know if you are a good fit. If you have any doubts, please please talk it through with your t first. You are worth more than you are feeling you are at the moment. Take stock, bite the bullet @ tell you t just how you are feeling towards them. Xxx