I don't really have any advice to offer, just wanted to say I understand the conundrum you find yourself facing ...

I kicked my toxic family to the curb years ago!

Money & All ... !!!

My physical and emotional well-being got to be more important than any of the goodies they thought they could purchase me with!

No child should have to sacrifice their minds, bodies & souls to the family of origin (especially their parents) for any reason!

Period!

I wish you the best in facing and making the tough decisions that lay ahead.

Sincerely,
Pfrog!