Well, a good thing is that you spoke about it, and that is being honest, sure your husband is hurt, some may be furious, I think in time talking about your feelings towards your husband is important right now, re assure him that you aren't looking for guys, that you are happy with him (hope you both are) in time things will work out, if it looks like things are pulling apart then I would suggest a marriage counseler to help sort things out and get real feelings understood, etc. It is worth a try if things do not improve.
I must say your honesty and self discipline were admirable
Please take care.
Wishing you lots of love and luck with this

DE

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SOLON