You are not overreacting. It drives me nuts when people that have a career in the mental health field make stupid comments like that. Why did you go into the field if you feel like that? You're not helping, you are making it worse, maybe even causing that person to end there life by one stupid comment. I went to a pdoc a couple of years ago for a second opinion. Within two minutes she looked at me and said your not dressed like your manic. I didn't even know what to say. I can't say it on here, but I went home that night and almost did something because of that comment.