hamster, I love the idea of massage. One of the things that helps me calm down, weird as it is, is brushing my hair. I guess that's a form of massage. When I get tense I'll remember this, and go to the rest room to brush my hair. My husband will be thrilled if I want to get there on time for a change. Makes sense to meet a few people at a time as they come in. These are annual events, and hopefully be a jump start to avoid other events I've skipped in the past because I don't know anyone.