I'm not sure how to explain why I feel the way I do about my t... it's a lot of things I guess... not the least of which is because I have come SUCH a long way in the 3 years we've been talking. I feel like she has helped me to help myself in a lot of ways. It's because for such a long time I needed/wanted someone who could and would listen to the ME beneath all the crap and help me learn how to listen that way too. If any of that makes sense.