Wow! I do not have any advice for you but I really think you did well when you told her your uncle story. I do not understand what else she expects you to do or say. I hope you can take the respite soon. Look at me, I am at the hospital with a severe health problem because I did not take enough care of myself, as I was taken by my mom illness and my brother bullying. I wish you the best, take care of yourself, Rose.