Ummmm when I was very young I was outgoing and happy, did well in school and never got in trouble. Dad married the step monster when I was seven and abuse started. After a while isolation and such I was quiet, still good in school but always in trouble with her (part of her manipulation.) I was depressed, VERY anxious and start cutting. I thought it would all go away when I left there at 17 but no. I am happier and outgoing. I got past the bad social anxiety. All that seemed to kick off my bipolar.