I have problems with my self-confidence...except I used to be really confident and outgoing, very comfortable in social situations etc etc. But now i'm none of the above.. i have lost all my self confidence and i don't know why..it's like it just flew out the window one day.

I agree that you should forget these men that were in your life, but i know that it is ALOT easier said than done...infact I'd think it's almost impossible to forget but you should try and forget the pain they've caused you...talk to your T about them I'm sure they can help you get your self-confidence back!!

Good luck xx