I think its trust like broken warrior said. I've been seeing my T for 4 years now ad just the other week I told that maybe I was begining to trust him a little. He said it took trust to say what I said. We then examined what we both do to encourage that trust. In the beginning there was just something about the way he listened to me and didn't ask the same pointless question that other T have asked in the first session. You know the question "How do you feel?" That was what I was there for because I did not know how I felt and babsically they asked in 20 different ways.