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Originally Posted by WillyA
I need help. I'm lost and I don't have anyone to turn to...
My husband and I have been married just over a year. I recently discovered that he has been calling sex hotlines, possibly escorts? He's been sexting these women as well. He also is addicted to porn.
I don't know what to do. He used to try to have sex with me every night and that stopped. He said it was because he was busy and tired, etc, etc.
He says he has a problem, that he has a sex addiction. He wants me to stay with him while he finds treatment, but at the same time he's still lying about the extent of everything. He told me this has only been going on for a few months, but I have access to our shared phone contract and I looked and saw that it's been going on for MORE THAN A YEAR!
What should I do? He keeps hiding things from me...
Please help!
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I think that you need to get out of there. Tell him how much you don't appreciate his lying and that it hurts too much to be with him.
He obviously needs help and by you being around him that puts more hurt towards you.
Everybody deep down appreciates great honesty in a relationship even if they may deny it to themselves!