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Old Dec 07, 2014, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by lovefromdover View Post
It's not about someone's expectations, but about guilt for experiencing sexual pleasure at all. Guilt for pleasure not tied to regular partner is secondary.
it was about expectations for sure, because the term used was "unfaithful". You can only be unfaithful to somebody. You cannot be unfaithful, period, but only unfaithful to somebody. Hence, someone's expectations define whether you can even consider yourself unfaithful.

There might be that generalized guilt you are talking about, but the word choice here is unambiguous - OP felt unfaithful to a guy whom she has not seen in RL.