I am very upset with her husband tonight. He has been advised to a degree about what is going on. He had not previously known. Additionally, the person working with her needs for him to understand, and also have his permission to a degree to be able to move forward in helping her. Her husband is a jerk. He is angry with her, as though any of this is her fault. He makes comments like, "Why are you so upset? Tell me who I mean WHAT I'm dealing with here." He knows how it hurts her. Sometimes I want to come out and show him EXACTLY what she has to deal with and tell him WHY.

Why are outsiders like this? If she is the one wanting help, why do they have such a hard time allowing her to find it? Why is it always about how things look and convenience issues? Why do they struggle with behaving like human beings. I know that I do not have my own body - that I am allowed to use hers - but I am a decent person and I would NEVER hurt anyone like he hurts her.