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Originally Posted by GreenFrogg
I've dated a man, on and off, for five years. He recently popped back into my life, in hopes to mend the relationship. We've remained friends and still get advice from each other. We've been at this a week and I'm seeing familiar patterns, and I'm beginning to pause. My first request was to get couples counciling before we move forward. He has been open with feelings and communication, but I still feel he's holding back. I cannot put myself through another "it's just not working" episode. Any suggestions?
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I agree get the counseling right away. It sounds like you have cared about this man for quite a while, so you are invested, but this time around the counseling should give you a clue whats up before you are reallllllllly involved!!! I am thinking that if it does not work there may be some more hurt for you and I am sorry. You just need to decide if you are willing to put the effort in. Good luck