Several years ago I showed up to my session to see my T sitting at her desk through the window with a huge pile of used Kleenex in front of her and she had obviously been crying a long time. She opened the door an she was sobbing and couldn't get her self together. Even though I was really having a hard time myself I suggested that we reschedule. It was kind of off-putting. I never did know what happened. I think I want my T to be tougher than I am, and competency is important to me too. I know she was just human but I felt kind of weird about her after that. You never really know what is going on with people though.