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It was a gorgeous message.

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That's 'cause he's a gorgeous T. I can feel your love.

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I loved it because it was so human. He admitted that he didn't know whether or not it would be right to call back-- that he didn't know what I would want... but he chose to call. When he said "but I wanted to call you back" he placed emphasis on the word 'wanted.'

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Yes, it is a mutualistic relationship. What he feels and wants are important too. Are you sure he is not from the humanistic psychology tradition?[/clapclapclap]

Congrats on making it through your first day, pinksoil. Sounds tough but like you handled it well. You are going to make a great T!