I'm amazed you don't realize you're being verbally
abused. It's time to stop it! Quote:"You get the behavior from people that you are willing to put up
with without protest. Your silence is CONSENT!"
Invest in some books on assertiveness for dear self,
meanwhile reply to comments thus: "Yeah,you could be right", or "Yeah,I can understand why you
might think that" (means nothing but puzzles critic),or "Yeah you're probably right enough." or
simply, "Yeah,possibly". But of course words like
probably etc.,are not ever definite are they? You
know different. Try them out,they're great! Oh, I
forgot this one: "That's not acceptable to me!"
Good Luck,
BLUEDOVE
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