@hamster-bamster,
Thanks for your concern. No, the car was not moving, it was parked, thence my comment that maybe I should have just run out.

I did tell him the following day that I was not happy about what had happened, I said "it was unnecessary." I did not use dramatic language as I had not resisted him, in fact I eventually went with the motions. I have experienced being forcefully molested as a child by a grown-up stranger (he said I needed to do what he said if I wanted to ever come home alive), and as an adult I've always had a problem saying no to men's sexual advances. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a loose woman - I've been celibate for five years after my divorce - but in the actual situations when I'm with a man and he wants sex and I know it's not the right time, I am afraid to say no. I'm afraid of making him upset or angry. Actually, your words to me "don't be afraid to be rude" - I decided to take heed. I told myself IT'S OKAY TO SAY NO. I'm 35 and am getting back out in the dating scene, so there may be more situations in the future where I will need to firmly say NO without fear. Anyway, he apologized and I accepted, we are not dating anymore though.