That's weird he would be interested in your SAT when you're 40... I wonder why? I don't think the SAT is a good intelligence test though, more like what did you learn in high school. About being a rule follower maybe that's not bad? I would ask why he brings it up, what is he getting at? Most people follow rules, if they are decent people.

I've been hurting because of something my therapist said recently too. He went out of his way to say our relationship is a "business relationship." While I get it, it also makes me want to kill myself. Silly me thought someone really cared about me.