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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
Thank you all. I still cant believe that he is the one who does wrong, I cant believe Im okay. Every man I ever dated always wanted sex. Its so normal but I.. I feel raped but I let him do it because I want to be normal and if I cant have sex it seems like Im not normal. Maybe its all just a lie he ttold me but it seems its true. If man or woman cant have sex its sickness.
I think its painful because I dont want it. Or I want it but not when we do it.
I dont know if I could talk about this to ttherapist. I told him little about these relationships abd started to feel worse.
I think Im gonna see female T because I think that my T like all men agree with my boyfriend and think that I am sick. I dont know what my T thinks but he was shocked when I told him I am virgin but maybe he forgot it. Im 23.
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HE IS WRONG!!! What is sick, is to pressure someone into doing something they are not comfortable with in order to gratify you own wants which is what he is doing. It is OK to not want to have sex. Do talk to your T. (& it may help to have a female...)--------it is not only the women here who say that he is abusive. (((((((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))))))