I can understand where you're coming from. At my age, I don't have those concerns anymore since it's all behind me. One of my daughters-in-law did sign up here and read way too much behind my back. It was a violation of privacy among other things but we've managed to work through what she read and her infringement here. I don't think anything could be worse! LOL Well... at least, not for me.
I'm sure you have your protection well in hand. Maybe PDD has read something here that will ease her worries.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.