I think you have to let your t know that you (ie any client not you specifically) are aware that your feelings are NOT personal. I have gotten the impression that you are hoping your t can save you in some way. He probably can HELP save you, but you probably still have to do most of the work. I think he just said this to remind you that he is there to help, but not really play an active role in your life. And maybe to remind himself? Youre right, it is kinda weird. Its probably hard to be in their shoes sometimes.