It's been about 18 years here.......bad marriage where living in the same house.....13 years....had absolutely NOTHING to do with him the last 11 of those years & left him 7 years ago FINALLY. Have no interest in any relationship & without a marriage relationship.....NO SEX here. Don't for see a change in that for the rest of my life.....but don't find it to be a real loss after all those bad years. The freedom more than makes up for any lack of sex.