It's a good question. I wouldn't say I love T. I'm reasonably attached to him and I'm quite fond of him - perhaps I love him like you might a close friend or caring mentor but I'm definitely not 'in love'. I'll miss him when he's not in my life any longer, but I won't be devastated.
Previous T on the other hand, her, I love, and for no good reason either. I experienced her as self-centered and needy, only caring towards me when I pleased her.

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