Fuzzy hon...you know I love you. Why do you tie your happiness to them? You are independent of them now...it doesn't matter if they think they are happy or not. Don't let it be your issue.

You are not them. Evaluate yourself separately from them. You don't have to tie your happiness to them anymore, or theirs to you. You are FUZZY. You are better and separate from them

I'm not explaining this well (and that is why I usually don't offer more than hugs)...but I hope you have an idea what I am saying.

J

PS does fuzzy like birds? I rescued a parrot from a very bad home earlier this year. Nobody could walk into her room without her going nuts. Now, after many months, she expects me to greet her, and even pet her. She's come as far as Fuzzy has. If you'd like me to send you her picture...just let me know.

PSS I won't even tell you about the Blues Brothers...2 cool little parrotlets we rescued too. lol