Good on you Webgoji, I'm sure many men take their wife's sexual satisfaction seriously. I suffered from premature ejaculation for most of my life...well right up to my back injury taking away feeling in my penis. All those years I focussed on fulfilling my wife's needs, because when it was time for me, I'd be done in less than a minute. Even with my loss of sensation, I still focus on my wife, since there's little hope for me. I would guess that in almost two decades of marriage, that my wife has failed to orgasm less than a dozen times; sadly though I've failed more than that in the past 4 years.

To be honest, it takes time, patience and a partner that is willing to work with you. If one partner can't orgasm, it should be a team effort to find ways to ensure both partners can be satisfied. DrSkipper shouldn't be in this alone.