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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
Yes, a preference, and also...
... when you touch the middle or the ends of long hair, you are touching HAIR
... when you touch the middle or even the ends of short hair, you are touching the HEAD. Almost as if petting a cat.
So he touched your hair - he did not pet you as if you were a cat!
For me at least - I have a Maine Coon with the hair of Lady Godiva - when I touch her head, I actually touch HER, but when I touch her mane, I do not get through to HER. He was touching or appreciating your mane - he was not making contact with your head which would have been way too intimate for the occasion.
So I would settle for "he is mesmerized by your hair" idea for right now, and update it as things move along (if they do).
Plus, to work in a food prep establishment, you have to obey a very strict dress code dictated by various safety considerations. So he could not have seen your long hair loose at work. At Buffalo Wings, he probably saw your long hair for the first time. Maybe he was... super happy?..
I know a lot of cooks so I am familiar with the chef's dress code. I do not know any bakers personally, but assume that similar standards apply.
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I most certainly agree on what you have posted. Thank you!
AND to be honest he was touching my head, which I said hair. That is why I want to speak to him about it when we hangout again. I truly don't know if this guy has been out in the dating world much. Which this can explain why he is a nervous wreck himself around me. Just need to go bit by bit until we are more comfortable around each other. We will have to see... I don't want a guy who clings himself onto me.
Oh also wanted to post is I could teach him meditation so both of our minds calm down and it sure is comforting. lol
I can post an update later because I know we will hangout again sometime this week. Hope it goes well!