Yes. Happened to me recently. I made the move and got shot down and figured out I was totally misreading things. Felt rejected and like an idiot.
I think some people send the wrong signals unconsciously on purpose. They want the attention and the flirting but not anything more than that and we can misread it.
Nothing wrong with honest communication I guess if we can do it in the right way and clear things up without losing a friend.
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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