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Originally Posted by Mid-Life-Larry
The 45yo prob has kids, surely has baggage, and more than likely the beginning stages of arthritis. I don't think it's right to burden a young 20yo child with ALL the middle age crap that comes by default. The 20yo has a whole life-time ahead of him/her..... To me, it's like using power and position to gain the upper hand on a inexperienced or infatuated person.
I do believe however, once both parties are OVER 40, for example, a relationship in which the man is 60 and the woman is 40 or vice-a-versa... is perfectly ok. -- no innocence loss.
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What? We're talking 45 not 95. You make it seem like someone's who's 45 is ancient. There's a lot of 45 year olds who take care of themselves better then people half their age.
Nobody is burdening anyone anyway. The 20 year old is an adult and can make their own decision. And from a man's perspective, men like Younger women because they're of a younger age to make children. So it's natural for a man to find women in their 20's attractive, even if he's in his 50's or 60's.