It's your father, Idk the man from Adam.


If I were to guess tho, I wouldn't put him in the drunk dickhead category. His abusive behavior was repetitive, and thus can't be attributed to poor decision making skills or lack of impulse control.

Abusers usually show remorse and promise never to do it again, only to continue their behavior.


Drunk dickheads, can and sometimes do choose to change their behaviour...


For the record, my abusive ex didn't have to be drunk or high, the day he beat me to a pulp he was as sober as can be.