I never thought there was much that I couldn't "analyze" myself? Being closer, absorbed, controlling, etc. LOL I don't know that it's just because they're our T but the nature of the relationship (if we had that close, a relationship with anyone we'd be likely to feel that way?). I would have never thought I'd fall in love with someone like my husband; a goodly amount older, fat, bald and already married; but I did. Having someone listen to us the way T's do, it's kind of inevitable.