ok is the country gal thing just something someone added or is that a reflection of u

if so

break it out rednecks style ................u need some mudding in a nice field ..........afterwards u need a bonfire in the middle of a field with several friends and family along with several 30 packs or a keg (some horse shoes or bag toss....a few games of @sshole .....guys cooking meat on the fire / ladies putting them out when they light on fire from being drunk and dumbasses )

if that is not right
go to art museum they are quite clam places find a nice seat and get lost in a painting for little bit ........after that hit the winebar (always somewhere close) have half a bottle go home sleep .....see if that does it